One other section of the video that really caught my eye was when they were in the supermarket and the woman yelled at her child. I nanny for three families and I also work at the Romeoville Rec Center and I could almost feel what that mother was feeling. One of the children I watch isn't the most behaved child and my initial reaction when we're out somewhere and he's acting up is to do what I do when we're not in public, give him three warnings and then send him to his room. Since we weren't at his house or anywhere that I could seclude him, I was confused on what to do in this situation. I ended up only giving him one warning and after that I told him he couldn't go play at the park when we went there (he had been acting like this all day and I had previously warned him while we were at his house). This caused him to throw a huge tantrum while we were eating lunch at McDonald's. I was so embarrassed that I ended up driving home, luckily it was close to his nap time, and made him go into his room for a nap. I know when I eventually have kids I'll probably have times like the mom in the video, but I hope to think about it more than she did. I don't feel like parents should go off on their kids like that, even if they are super stressed out.
Overall, I found the video really interesting and I'd love to hear his full speech one day.
I love that instead of just focusing on the video itself, you wrote about a real life situation. I work as a CNA, and even though they're not children, I still get the feeling of confusion you talk about when they act bad and you're unsure of how to handle the situation.
ReplyDeleteI like how you connected that we do not step back and look at our life we just continue doing the same thing over and over because it is true we never stop to look and see what we can do differently. I also like how you connected with the mother in the store to your situation with the kids that you nanny for and gave an example of how you treat a similar situation.
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